Baby Shower # 1

The moment we told Ryan's Aunt Sue that I was expecting, she told us that she wanted to throw a baby shower in our honor! Needless to say, we were delighted! After working all week, with the help of Ryan's mom, Debi, and cousins, Tina and Brooke, the shower was absolutely beautiful and we couldn't have asked for anything more! Not only were we surrounded by local family and friends, we also had family who traveled from as far as California, Nevada, Colorado, Texas, and Arizona to join us for the occasion! Others who couldn't make the trip, sent gifts and well-wishes to Baby "O" as well!

Ryan and I have always known that we have an unbreakable support system, but we were still overwhelmed by the joy and love that this baby has brought to our lives and to our loved ones' lives as well! It's hard to believe he's had this impact and he has yet to arrive! The anticipation is palpable! Here are pictures of this special day as we prepare for the little man's arrival! Thank you from the bottom of our hearts to everyone who was there, either physically or in spirit. We appreciate each and every one of you and love sharing our happiness! Enjoy!

Ryan, Auntie Sue, and Kelly

Grandpa and Grandma Zarr, Kelly and Ryan

The parents-to-be!

It's present time!

Daddy:)

Uncle Mark, Kelly and Ryan

Oh, Grandpa Zarr!

Kelly and the Grandmas-to-be!

Kelly and Aunt Carly

So many gifts....

Yummy cupcakes for dessert....Mmmmm!

"I think I'm the father......??!!"

Car seat base! Safety first!

Awww, NO doubt!

All ready for the pool!

Fun shark backpack for the little man! And pee pee teepees for mom and dad's sake!

Baby's Heartbeat at 23 Weeks!

Music to a mother and father's ears!

Halfway to the finish line!

Here is the 20 week belly pic! It's hard to believe that he is halfway here! I've been feeling great lately....I guess the 2nd trimester really is the honeymoon phase:) School is out in a week and it's all baby from here on out!

20 weeks (halfway)

Buy Buy Baby FYI

Just wanted all of you who are planning on shopping at Buy Buy Baby to know that they also accept current Bed Bath and Beyond coupons! However, you can only use them in-store or over the phone. There is no way to use them on-line. I'm always looking to save, so thought I'd pass along the info:)

PS-Ry felt the baby kick for the first time Saturday night! It was a moment that I won't soon forget! He's such a proud dad:)

It's a.....

Ry and I found out on Wednesday that we are expecting a BABY BOY!! We could not be happier!! I had no inkling either way, but Ry had been convinced it was a girl the last month or so. The look on his face was priceless when the tech said "It's a BOY!" We looked at each other in disbelief and started laughing with exuberance at the thought of having a little man join the family! Most importantly, the anatomy scan ultrasound was perfect and we have one healthy baby on the way! I've been feeling him move a lot lately and Ry can't wait until he gets his first feel of some movement. Every time Ry waits patiently for a kick, he settles down again. Can't wait until we catch him! So much to look forward to!

Here are some pictures of Baby Boy Olivero ~ Enjoy!

Sweet Baby Boy!

The "money shot" as the tech called it!

Chin up

3D - He was camera shy:)

New URL starting Sunday

This Sunday I will be changing the URL address from http://oliverotwins.blogspot.com/ to http://babyolivero.blogspot.com/. Feel free to pass along the new address to family and friends who are following the blog!

Boy or Girl?

Don't get too excited, we don't know yet! But, we will know in less than three weeks! Ry and I absolutely cannot wait to find out whether we are expecting a boy or a girl! One thing we do know is that it doesn't matter one bit to us as long as the baby is healthy. I know what you're thinking.....that's what everyone says,  but after all we've been through, I can tell you honestly - that's the truth! Stay tuned.....

Belly Update

14 weeks 2 days pregnant

Candles on a cake....

Today we had a follow-up visit to check that all is well with the baby! This week's visit was much more positive and left us feeling a sense of confidence and calm. My mom (aka Grandma Mary) was there to lend some support and got a thrill when she not only got to see the baby, but also heard the heartbeat!  She swears that it's a boy, but the doc said that any doctor would have to be pretty good at what they do in order to call that one this early.....needless to say, she's convinced:)

I thought it was funny and felt the urge to post thinking about how many years I've blown out the candles on my birthday cakes and wished for a baby for Ry and I. Today, on my birthday, we got to see our baby and hear the heartbeat~and that is the BEST birthday present that I could have asked for.

Bittersweet Week 12 Visit

Ryan and I had our 12 week appointment on Monday and got some unexpected news. After the ultrasound, the doctor informed us that we had lost one of the twins. He reassured us that this is a common occurrence with multiples and had no explanation as to why it had happened. We were in shock as our 30 minute doctors appointment turned into a 2 1/2 hour night at the hospital that changed the course of our lives forever.

On the other hand, we are still expecting one healthy baby (who, by the looks of it, has dad's long legs!) on October 16th, 2012! We are so grateful that the  baby has a strong heartbeat and is growing quickly! It was a bittersweet moment after receiving the devastating news when we got to hear the surviving twin's heartbeat for the first time. Although we had mixed emotions, we are looking forward to the next visit so that we can see our baby grow and develop.

The love that Ryan and I have for one another is helping us to make sense of the situation, even though we realize that there may never be an answer. Our friends and family continue to be a great support for us during this difficult time. We've learned that there are no guarantees in life and that every moment is precious! We wouldn't change a thing we have done thus far. We shared our elation with everyone after we found out we were having twins and again we will share the joy and happiness with everyone the day that our baby is born! For now, we are staying strong and picking up the pieces so that we can provide the best home for Baby "O".  We feel so loved and want you to know that we feel the same about all of you as well.

Baby "O" at 12 weeks!